Monday, August 9, 2010

If you really love someone why break up with them?

I have a really strong belief that if you love someone so deeply you feel it in your bones you would do whatever it takes to get over the bumpy parts of a relationship no matter what it may be. i know becaues my ex bf did things to me and i stayed with hjim because of how much i love him but he broke up with me giving me a lame excuse i lov eu so much i want to marry u one day but i cant give u what u want right now.





if he truly loved me he wouldnt of left me. and the weirdest thing of it all is i felt how much he loved me, but why does that go away? or maybe hes just confused but its just very painful for me because he broke up with me like that. if u love someone deeply u cant live without them.If you really love someone why break up with them?
There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with them.If you really love someone why break up with them?
Although you have some very valid thoughts and answers to what you are going through...unfortunately even if someone loves someone else deeply, sometimes their internal fears are more than they can handle and they feel the need to run. No matter how strong there feelings are. If you are over come with emotion about something, sometimes the only choice you feel you have is to run and get away from it all. Because running is easier than confronting whatever the issue is. Hard as either one might be.
just because you love someone doesnt mean that they will feel it back as much as you do or will be the right person for you, they are alot of people who love each other but are bad together, he just realized he couldnt give you what you needed no matter how much love was there..
You both need to stop abusing that word ';love'; - and you might want to find out what it really does mean and when it is right to use it.





Obviously he feels you want or need something he cannot or will not do for you right now.
Maybe he feels like you two have no future together...I'm sorry :(
i think guys have all these lame excuses telling you why they '; can't be with you '; but really i think there's more to it than that . usually guys just change their minds and move on . they're not like girls . us , girls we tend to get emotionally attached while most guys just fling from one to another .
if a person really loves you then he better have a real reason to break up, its not impossible but the reason should be a plausible one.....love isnt eternal (maybe he fell out of love)..... if the person you are so in love with DOESNT love you then there is no reason to stay with him. his excuse for leaving you was silly, maybe he didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you the real reason why he left. one thing is for sure, he left the door open,the ';its not my fault'; trick.... keep you hanging on for him....... thats a good trick to ';come back'; when that new gf of his dumps him. love is a 2way street.
If your boyfriend ';did things to you'; then he probably didn't love you to much. Sounds like you just let him walk all over you. Stay strong and you will find someone that loves %26amp; respects you.

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