Why are guys so quick to jump into another relationship after a break-up?

I was with this dude for almost 3 years. We lived together and everything. I told him that I wanted to break up with him, but I only said so because I was so angry and sad. Not even a week after we break up, he is already with a new girl and claims to be in love. I told him that I did not want this to happen, but all he kept saying is that we would talk about it. We never really did. I just dont understand how someone who says they love and care about you and even wanted to get married and start a family could move on so quickly. Its been almost 5 months and I still cry everyday about it. =( He says that he still loves and cares about me, and can maybe see something in the future with us. I just dont know what to believe anymore. He and this new girl are always going out of town together, his sister and this new girl are like BFFs. It sucks! He is younger than she is and she also has a kid. I remember him saying that may be a problem for him, but it doesnt seem to matter to him anymoreWhy are guys so quick to jump into another relationship after a break-up?
Because a lot of guys are just content to get steady sex and you can do that in a relationship.Why are guys so quick to jump into another relationship after a break-up?
Woman generally have a greater emotional attachment to the relationship than men. Once the relationship is over, most (not all) men move on. Yes, they were usually in love in the previous relationship, but they feel it is over and they most move on. Woman usually analyze the situation much more than their counterparts.


Most men don't like to be alone as well. They need to have a woman around to feel secure and happy about themselves. If the realtionship is over why are you still thinking about him?
Please move on Michelle. He made his choice, didn't he?


Can a relationship happen with 1 person? No.





If u wish to, and if you can handle it, be platanic friends with him, but as hard as it is, you have to make an attempt to get it together and move on with your life. If u wish to, let him know how you feel, and let that be the last mail you ever send to him. Wish him luck in his new relationship.





Moreover, is it possible to feel love for a guy who is choosing to love or hang out with another woman? Doesn't it hurt?





So practice detachment, practice compassion (wish them both well), practice forgiveness (for yourself, and for him)...look at life in a broad perspective (aren't there so many other goals to achieve in life, plus, a trillion other guys out there u havent met, who will give you everything you wish for?). Get engaged in life, and don't dwell on this. Dwelling increases feelings of sadness and depression. Cry it out if u wish, but, get up and move on.





If he is meant to return, he will, but dont hold your breath for that. And also, make sure, you dont become ';the other woman'; in this scenario. Be confidant and take wise decisions, however hard they are.
because we dont care as much as girls and we just want some @ss
to help them get over the other person more fast
cuz boys dont really care were not in relationships to be in love 99.9% of the time so it dosent hurt us
Were you fighting a lot? It is hard to say because we are only getting a little view of what your relationship was like.





I am just thinking there has to be a reason that he went to someone else so quickly, although some guys cannot be alone - they (like some women) feel they need to be with someone all the time.