How do i break up or leave my CRAZY boyfriend?

okay so we've been together for 11 months now. and i want out i wanted out a month ago atleast. there were some complications with my parents and i ended up moving in with him at his parents house. sounds lame so far right. (i'm 24 he's 25). so i felt like he was all i had at the time again stupid. i had and have friends never move in with a boyfriend only fiancee's. so anyways, we have only spent like 4 days or nights apart in these 11 months not healthy because whenever i wanted to go and do something withOUT him he would just tell me no and want to know why he couldn't come and no that i couldn't go. i didn't understand then that it was because he didn't trust me because he's stupid. he gets pissed and mad if someone tells him he has a beautiful or hot girlfriend. if i want to stay somewhere or go to a bar i never have a good enough reason for him not to come too. so i just won't go. i have no fun going out with him anywhere other than maybe somewhere i don't know anyone. if we go to the club where we both know many people. and if i go to talk to someone it's me running off when were there to spend time with i guess just each other. when how is that possible with all of our friends there too? and if i dance with my best friend well i better dance more with him after or he thinks too into it. oh yea and he has parents who really arn't there for him they know he needs help but don't act on it. and he needs a ride to work and from work. because he was stupid and got tickets and didn't pay them and drivers responsibility fees. so he has no license but he will in 14 days as long as he keeps paying Secretary of State. so i'm the only way he has to work. but i work too. i work from 9am to 6 pm. he work from 3:30 pm to 9pm-12am, we never know what time he gets off. then wants to spend time with me and i cant stay up late and huffs and puffs when i start falling asleep. he calls me every break and lunch he has. i want him to leave me alone i broke up with him on sunday and because he started calling me a liar; that i wouldn't pick him up from work cause i said i would but found him another ride) i answered my phone and stayed on to see if someone could get him before he walked into traffic, since he threatened to. so i got roped back to give him another chance but i moved out with my friends which he thinks i'm at my parents because i don't want to deal with his childish yelling. he called me today at work HYSTERICAL because my best friend who i live with now posted online she was happy i was living with her now. so i lied and said i didn't know why she put that. to calm him down. his parents are behind me on living my life i'm young i feel physically sick i wake up with sore teeth from grinding them i get like 3 hours of sleep the past two nights. all he does is suggest why don't you do this or is you do this you should do this or if i do one this from his suggestion more than three times he says why don't you do always do this. like call him baby or babe instead of something sexy. or he gets up set if i dont' say i miss you or if i say i love you in the wrong tone. he just whines and threatens that he's gunna lose his job and get kicked out and end up back in the hospital. i took all his knives from him and gave them to his dad he's gunna freak when he learns this. my stomach is always in pain. and i was showering every other day and he's wake up when i did to go to work and ask me why i showered without him and why did i wash my hair everyday. what do i do? should i let him destroy himself? because i know if i give in to this i will not be here on this planet. i don't know how much more i can take. and he said he felt used because i moved in with him but now i'm not, something stupid like that. and everyother time i tried to leave he would just tell me no. well scream it. and my reasons were never good enough for me too leave. like i'm the crazy one here. i mean i am for staying this long. i'm tired of being his mother. he would call me up at work and get pissed over something he read online and like i had something to do with someone elses posts. or get upset because in my myspace profile i don't have a picture of both of us happy together as my main profile pic. we are not married. i don't want to marry him ever. but if i just stop contact i don't know what will happen. so again PLEASE someone help out there. thank youHow do i break up or leave my CRAZY boyfriend?
Just move out.How do i break up or leave my CRAZY boyfriend?
Well, you have some controlling boyfriend there. This guy is a perfect example of someone that you have to really quit while you're ahead. If you stay with him, it's only a matter of time before you're miserable and depressed and maybe suicidal. I know its extreme but it does happen in these relationships. This guy is a complete bummer...you know it and I know it. But you fail to realize that you're wasting your time with him. Controlling guys ALWAYS make some kind of suicide threats when they're about to break up...its their way of resorting to extreme measures when they lose control.





I don't see how you can even be around him. I mean, he gets mad when other ppl call you beautiful or hot? Isn't that a compliment to him as well as you? And, what's the point of going anywhere if you HAVE to stay by his side? He obviously believes that you both share one life.





Look, I know you would feel like crap if you broke up with him and he did something to himself but the plain fact is that ITS NOT YOUR PROBLEM. You're not responsible for what he does. The truth is that he is a terrible bf and you have NO CHOICE but to leave him (he's already driven you away once). Hell, you're only with him now because he basically talked you into it (which is a clear sign to break up, if you have to be talked into a relationship). He seems extremely selfish and theres gonna be a day where all that pent up anger and frustration you had for him is just gonna blow.





Honestly, I think you need to tell him the truth about what he's doing. He needs to know that you or any other woman will stand up for that crap. He needs to get his s**t together before he can have any kind of relationship. You deserve so much better than him...you both need to realize that.