Are these bad reasons to break up with him?

My previous question, I described how my boyfriend constantly talks about how beautiful other women are... And how perfect their bodies are and how big their a** and t**s are... It sounds like a little foolish to get mad at this but he does it to the point it seems like he actually thinks about other women and what he wants to do to them. He was also telling my friend about how his ex's had perfect bodies and how he would f*** them... It makes me feel like I'll never live up to his expectations. And he'll always point to a pretty girl saying, ';I would totally f*** her if I was single, shes f**** bangin!';... And he tells me to ';get over it theres going to be hot women everywhere'; when I get upset when he does it. I know there is, but does he have to speak on it in detail every time??





He also hangs up on me when I tell him something he doesen't want to here. He gets mad at the fact when I tell him that I don't like when hes smoking or drinking. He would tell me ';I dont want to hear ur s*** rite now I heard enough from my mom and sister!';





But despite that, hes treats me right. Doesen't verbally or phsyically abuse me or anything and always wants the best for me... And when we aren't arguing, he's always making me smile...





But are those good enough reasons to break up with someone after you told them it bothers you and they told you to ';deal with it';?Are these bad reasons to break up with him?
Dump him... leave him and have no regret. Sure there may be other pretty or hot girls around, but doesn't give him the right to make you feel like crap.





My ex did the exact same thing and I got so fed up with it, I left him. He also aside from the sexual comments about other girls, treated me right. But I couldn't take the insecurity anymore.





Guys are gonna look, but if they really care about you, they aren't gonna point it out and make it obvious to the point where u feel the way you do.





ok, well I didn't regret leaving mine. Some girls may, and that's understandable. You may think he's a good guy, but I'm sure you could find someone who will treat you even better. It just doesn't feel good, and it will damage you if you continue to put up with it.Are these bad reasons to break up with him?
This is just my opinion,but I would break up with him. You don't need a guy to make you feel like you can't live up to his expectations. You need someone to make you feel good. But, yes those are good enough reasons to break up with someone. You should be able to tell him how you feel about something without him saying ';deal with it';.
well there is never a reason for a guy to say those things around his girlfriend he obviously have no respect for you.


if the tables were turned and you said those things to him he would prolly easily break up with you


hes testing you to see how far he can push you


and if i were in your position i wouldnt let him do it because you should have enough respect for yourself to not let a guy talk that way to you no matter what,.
Look at what it's doing to your self-esteem. You don't feel like you live up to his expectations. You don't think he would approach these women when you're not around?? Honestly, I don't understand how you put up with it. I'd get pissed if my boyfriend did that.





My advice is to break it off
well they dont seem like bad reasons to me. continue to tell him that u dont like it when he drinks and smokes and if he hangs up, call him back and very calmly but with just a hint of ur ';ur in trouble'; voice, tell him u dont like it when he hangs up on u and if he does it again, u will break up wit him. im all for makin ppl squirm so u might not like my idea. just a suggestion :)
What a creep! Just because theres ';hot'; women everywhere, he doesn't have to say stuff like that. He can keep it to himself. Him verbally announcing his thoughts about wanting to have sex with other women isn't accomplishing anything, other than making you upset.


He sounds like a jerk, I'd dump him.
these r good reasons to break up with him


If he is really in love with u, He is not supposed to talk about other hot girls, however hot they may be.


He is supposed to talk highly about u and your assets.


Maybe threaten to leave him, so that he learns to treat a lady properly.
It's ok for him to compliment about other hot girls, but for him to talk about sleeping with them and not you, that's not acceptable. I think you should give him a warning and if he doesn't take the warning, break up.
sounds like hes pretty disrespectful to you and doesnt understand the point of a relationship. he should focus on you and make you feel good and take your feelings on what he does into consideration. honestly yes i think you should find someone that you can have a more meaningful relationship with
he's a jerk!





your boy friend should try to at least make you happy 100%


of the time


if you found a guy that makes you smile when you guys aren't arguing im sure


you can find a guy that makes you happy 1005 of the time
GOD NO!!! dump his loser *** already will you!


he treats you like crap. Its quite irrelevant that its only half the time.


he hangs up on you


he tells you who he would like to do.. when your RIGHT THERE!!!


he doesn't wanna hear your sh**?





guess what girlfriend? you shouldn't wanna hear his either!
DUMP HIM RIGHT NOW. GET OFF THE COMPUTER, PICK UP YOUR PHONE AND SAY ';GOODBYE'; TO THAT LOSER! Go out and find a REAL man, who will shower YOU with compliments and RESPECT you for you! Trust me, He's making your self-confidence go down the toliet.
dump his ***! If ur feeling angry here麓s a good way to do it: ';Hey want to see a mgic trick? Poof! You麓re single!'; Dont waste ur time with a guy whos a total pervert and who hangs up like a spoiled kid when things dont go his way.
Personally, I would break up with him. I wouldn't want to stand being treated like that and never feeling good enough. Do what your heart tells you, but strongly consider breaking up with him, you deserve someone waaaay better than that!
If he's not perfect for you now all the time, he never will be. I'd say give it a little longer, but if you keeping thinking like this, you should probably end it before you waste any more time.
Yes.





He is showing you disrespect and you don't need that.





Leave him to find someone who will show you respect.
The time you took to try and comprehend this question, should have been better spent on kicking his butt to the kerb.





Why do you even talk to him? Seriously? Are you mentally ok?





leave him now
It's not acceptable for him to talk about other women like that unless you're comfortable with it - which you obviously are not. You deserve better that this guy!!
first of all how old is he that hes smoking, second of all, you should break up with him as far as i can tell, he sounds like an *** hole to me
These are by no means bad reasons to break up with him. would you like more specific reasons why these are good reasons? please reply
he is just trying to get you jelouse just get even instead say the same thing about guys turn it around and make him jelouse ;]
You should tell him that you need more respect than what he's giving you or your leaving. Cause when you're in a relationship he should only really want to be with you.
he sounds like a jerk!!!!! Dump him in the most embarrasing way you can think of, then go and find a new man worth your time :)
Yeah its not worth it. He obviously doens't appreciate you.
i CANT BELiEVE YOUR STiLL HANGiNG AROUND AFTERR HE SAiD HE'D FxCK HERR THATSz JSUT WRONG TOO KEEP HANGiNG AROUND THAT BS! BREAK UP WiTH HiM iN A HEARTBEAT
He sounds like a real brat. No guy is worth putting up with that amount of bullshit.


Tell him to pull his head out of his **** or he can have another hot EX-girlfriend!
Break up with him, you deserve more respect than that.
if he cant respect you when you respect him i say break up with him he deserves it
ew wat a jerk. u need someone more caring and considerate! and if u dont wanna break up with him do it back. point out hot guys and stuff. but i just say dump him.
u cant deal with that bs. leave him
dump him...