Friday, August 20, 2010

Is this worth breaking up with him ?

I have been with my live-in boyfriend for almost 2 years now. Everything is okay except for the bedroom part. Its dead. I have tried to spice it up, and he knows its a problem. I told him how i feel and he just doesnt seem to care all that much. Im a very sexual person and he is not. I cant really see a future with this guy if things dont shape up. We are young, Im 24, and just feel like there is more out there for me..we love each other very much...but i need to feel sexual needed, you know?! It has been a problem for about a year now..and he keeps saying he is trying, but nothing has changed..do i wait longer or give it up? Im at my wits end here..ready to move out, just not sure if its the right thing, dont wanna regret ya know.


Is it wrong to break up with someone just over sex though?Is this worth breaking up with him ?
try to have a serious talk with him. If there are some problems with his body, accompany him to the doctor.





If he still cannot understand you, break up with him without hesitation.





You have to go on you life...time really flies... you cannot waste your time and youth any longer...Is this worth breaking up with him ?
SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING BUT I KNOW IT SURE HELPS. SIT DOWN AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND TELL HIM THAT YOU ARE READY TO LEAVE HIM IF THINGS DONT CHANGE, OR WAIT UNTIL YALL GO TO BE AND MAKE SURE HE IS AWAKE AND PLEASE YOURSELF RIGHT IN FRONT OF HIM AND DONT LET HIM TOUCH YOU. MAYBE HE WILL GET THE IDEA!
I don't know that it is wrong, but if you really care about each other you should meet with your doctor. It could be a number of things, even something that can be fixed by diet or by underlying insecurities. Speak to a professional before you throw in the towel.
Depends entirely upon how much you feel you really need great sex. Why not give him a few pointers in the bedroom? Obviously you can teach him alot about what you like when the draws come off if he's not pleasing you but you wanna stay with him.
No it's not wrong to break up with someone just over sex. Sex is important in a relationship but even more important in a marriage. How can you spend the rest of your life with an unhappy sex life? You WILL cheat. If he is interested in fixing the issue, then he should be open to your ideas (as long as they are not painful or demeaning) or some sort of sex therapy. If not, then it's definitely time for you to let the relationship go and move on with your life. Good Luck!
if this is the only problem, which i sense it is not, then id say no. But usually when there is problems in the bedroom there are genarally other issues too. So im going to say if you really love him, and know that it could work then id hang in there and speak to a therapist. However, if your love life really did improve would you only be happy for a short time and then find some other reason to want to get out? See long relationships have their issues because no relationship is perfect....if you always run away when things arnt going perfectly especially in the relationship......then none of your relationships will pan out....so really think hard about this........i doubt that sex is the only problem......but if it is then id say dont break up with thim because of that......
its not breaking up with someone just over sex, its because he doesnt seem to understand you- nd to me there doesnt seem to be a great deal of cumunication or understanding between you both. Id end it if I were you, if you have been trying for a year to make thingd better, then you just wont be happy. what happenes i you dont have the heart to break up with him, and you still have a sexual desire? even if you are a very decient person, we are all just human...


good luck
Is it wrong to break up with someone just over sex though?





this is a Major issue. it can destroy the relationship sooner or later. talk to him and go out of this relation.

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