So i saw him on campus and he just completely walked passed me without any acknowledgement or anything!!!!
wat do i do hereWhen you break up with someone, and we are talking ages 20-25 how do you react when seeing them?
Keep it pushin.
Look your best everyday - take care of your wants and needs - looking good is the best revenge. You can't make someone be a grown-up - just do what is best for you.When you break up with someone, and we are talking ages 20-25 how do you react when seeing them?
Take this from a guy who's been hurt by a few too many women. He made it very clear to you when he said ';you have a break, we end... so pick. Since you picked time for yourself then you and him are probably ended.
This is because it can hurt a lot for guys. We don't play those ';lets take a break games.'; You chose time for yourself rather than trying to work things out with him and that probably hurt him a lot. After my ex broke up with me I wish I could have had the opportunity to ignore her for a while but I couldn't because I had a bunch of classes with her and it took me more than a year to get over her.
So here is my question to you. You told him what you wanted even though he said that you two were over if that's what you picked, so why is it a big deal that he is doing exactly what he said he would do? If that's how he copes with the pain of losing you then give that to him if you care for him at all. The mean thing to do would be to force yourself on him if he doesn't want that.
As to what you should do, go have your time to see to your own wants and needs. You're getting exactly what you said you wanted.
Hi DC here!
Go and have fun, hang out with both girl and guy friends but don't suddenly start flirting with them when he's passing by as instinct may tell you too. Just have fun look your best and do things you wouldn't used to be able to do when you were with him.
This way you won't need closure because you'll already have it, you'll heal faster because your having fun AND you may find someone better who enjoys the things you do more.
If your ex goes alot of places you go then ask your friends to come find some new places to chill. Be the diplomatic one, make concessions but keep your respect for yourself by still going your absolute favourite place even if he goes.
At some point he may even come over and talk to you again becuase you didn't show his behaviour towards you upset you. and you may even become friends although I suggest you don't date again.
Hope this Helps you!
You can't change his reaction and I wouldn't worry about it. He is being very childish and should have never given you an ultimatum (that was childish too). It shouldn't change how you would greet him if you saw him. Just know that you are much more mature than he is. Don't stoop to his level. And I think it was a smart move for you to take time for you...........you aren't married and need to nurture yourself.
You don;t have to do anything...You wanted space and time to yourself and that's what you got. If he is ignoring you then that is the way he is choosing to deal with the break up and you can't be mad at him...However, if you feel that you made a mistake then you need to let him know.
If you still love him then try to work things out. If you are unsure then give it some more time. If he is going to treat you like that and ignore you like you have never met then you deserve someone better. There are so many good guys out there, so why settle for someone who is going to treat you like a doormat and ignore you when he doesn't need anything from you. Love goes both ways, so by the way he is acting, he wasn't sure either.
he sounds like the stubborn type sit down and talk to him and see what he wants from this tell him thats cause you want time to yourself doesnt mean you dont want to be friends. if he doesnt give you decent answer id say forget about him as he needs to do bit of growing up
if he keeps on ignoring u then just act like he's not there and be all cheerful and happy..
he picked playing like kids and he deserves a tough player! otherwise, u can still be friends or at least greet each other when u meet..at that age I still talk to anyone I ';had a potential to be with'; :]
then just let it be that..
if he really wants to talk then give him time to confront u!
some ppl take break really hard and bad
some ppl just need time to take everything in!
good luck though!
Let it be like that. Act as if he doesn't exist. If he just walk past u without a word, does he expect u to greet him. Just act normal. Show him u don't care.
Why do you HAVE to do anything.
Its over.
Move on already.
make yourself feel better again and then help him out.
umm just move on, and forget about his childish games
man just move on cuz he ain't worth your time.
You have two choices, either you play his game and also ignore him, which might just make you feel awful. Or you say hi, because guess what, don't let anyone dictate how you normally act. Be yourself, if you say hi and he ignores you, then give him his space, and get on with your life.
But you cant make choices for other people, they will do what they think they should do. If you are really concern about him not talking to you, then approach him in a non-confrontational way and not in a crowd.
All the best, i hope it works out how you want.
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