Live with someone after you break up as a couple?

I'm probably having the break up talk with my gf very soon, this weekend maybe. We're good as friends, but falling apart as a couple. e've lived together for nearly two years. and she doesn't have anywhere to go straight away when we break up, so I want to give her time to get herself sorted with a new place to live.


I'll be fine living with her until we're both sorted and have arranged how we will move out, we'll probably sleep in seperate beds but do you think she'll be okay with this? I think she's going to be the one not wanting to break up and wanting us to make another go of things.Live with someone after you break up as a couple?
Honestly, she has family she could stay with. I wouldn't let her stay, in my opinion. It will give her false hope, and she WILL try to fix things. She will try so hard to sway your opinion, and keep you hanging around. Your emotions will get twisted. I wouldn't do it.





Be sure to rethink any decision you want to make. If she cares a lot about you, compliments you, tries to help you with your problems, loves you, supports you - then don't make the wrong decision.








Best of luck, but I wouldn't let her stay if you want to successfully go seperate ways.











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living with some1 after breaking up will be very hard on u both ( weather u want to admit it 2 yourself or not).


if u are falling apart as a couple who not try and rekindle the love, try new and different things have romantic nights..just try and rebuild or rekindle the love why not its not going to hurt is it then if it doesnt work then go ahead and break it off, just have a sit down and have a talk about things 1st.. remeber what made u fall in love in the 1st place and how it made u feel


goodluck
yeah she shud be, unless ur gonna bring s tring of girls home and have loud sex with them....i haev doen this with my ex hubby, it wasnt pleasant to be honest but neither of us had anywhere to go until the house was sold, he brought girls hjome and was on the phone/internet with girls for hours to bug me........so try not to be mean eh?
i like the 'probably sleep in separate beds' bit lol lol


i've lived with ex's till they or me found a place.. not much fun but very do able.. if shes not wanting to split up then it will be hard on you both.. but if shes got no where to go then u cant just kick her out.


i would recommend u don't sleep together though, it will just confuse things! lol
Andy, without knowing the whys and wherefore's of the break up, it's very hard to offer advice.


Even if you are not a couple as such, it's still possible to live together in the same house, as you say, you can sleep in separate beds, plus she can pay towards the upkeep of the house.


Certainly her contribution towards the bills, etc would be welcome, and as long as you can be amicable towards each other, I don't really see a problem.


After my divorce, my ex wife stayed in the same house as me, and without the pressures that the relationship had brought, things actually worked out better between us, and we got on better.


If you can stay, and actually get along with each other, on a platonic relationship, then why not give it a go. You have help towards the bills from someone you know and trust, she has a roof over her head, and the safety of living in the same house as someone she knows and trusts.


Mike t.