Monday, August 9, 2010

Is it possible to live with someone you recently broke up with. How do you just be friends?

i just broke up with my mate.We are currently still living togrther.how do i seperated myself and just be friends.Is it possible to live with someone you recently broke up with. How do you just be friends?
I guess it's possible, but I cannot think of how. If you break up, you need to separate entirely. Don't live together. Don't meet up for lunch or for coffee. Don't text and email each other. Cut your ties for a while. Let the healing process complete itself.Is it possible to live with someone you recently broke up with. How do you just be friends?
my parents got divorced and before it was final they still lived in the same house.





all i need to say is: not a very good idea.
move out...thats too weird.
u can not your relationship will never be the same u always say still be friends but it never works out that way
Time. And honesty. You have to both be honest about the fact that it's over. Just remember that some people are better off as friends.
Not to be insensitive, but you might just as well smack yourself in the head with a brick.





Even if you and your mate are both very rational, kind, considerate people, it will be an uncomfortable and difficult situation, and very painful for at least one of you, likely both of you on some occasion or other.





If you either of you are at all emotionally unstable, it will be an unending nightmare.





I would really recommend not living together once you end a relationship with somebody. I know sometimes that can be difficult given the reality of modern housing situations.
This happened to me. :) It's a little weird at times. I guess it depends on how long you lived together and how bad the relationship got at the end. Was it a bad breakup? If so then there might be some hostile emotions flying around that make for a hostile living arrangement. In my case we grew apart but were still really close friends and still are. I moved out after a couple months because we both started dating again and though it wasn't weird for us we thought it would be a little hard for future partner prospects :) If the partner is still holding onto the fact it may be reconciled then you may want to move out soon. You may be giving them false hope unintentionally and vice versa if you are still hoping on a reconciliation as well. I hope this helps and good luck.
I believe 2 ppl who live together and use to be intimate will still be intimate and still have feelings for each other.
Friends... nope... civil, yes.

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