HOW to break up with someone you've been very serious with and LIVE with?

live with my boyfriend of 3 yrs. I really care about him but I am not sure if I am still IN love with him. We broke up for 2 months about 2 yrs ago and i thought that was what I wanted but I ended up devastated and we got back together, I dont want that to happen again. I really care about him but I dont see myself marrying him. HOW do i break up with me? He will most likely manipulate me and make it seem like IM the one with the problem.. and I dont know if I'm strong enough to NOT be with im. (thats sad I know) any advice i would be very greatfulHOW to break up with someone you've been very serious with and LIVE with?
If you really do not see a future with him tell him that, but make sure you have money and a place to go when you do so you can get out ASAP. Then you will make a clean break which will give you the start to a new chapter in you life. Why be unhappy in the relationship just because you are a little afraid to move on? Life is an adventure jump in...find a roomie(a girl) if you dont want to go solo.HOW to break up with someone you've been very serious with and LIVE with?
I imagine anything you do will not end well. If you stay with him, you'll be unhappy. If you break up with him, he'll be pissed and I'd imagine will flip out. The least you can do is be straight up, break up and find a new place, or crash with a friend for a bit. Just make sure it is really what you want and it doesn't ';devestate'; you like the last time.
why don't you take some time apart from him to see if this is what you really want to do. maybe go stay with your family or friends for about a week to sort through your feelings. if this is still what you want to do then just sit him down and talk to him about how you feel and what your stance is on the relationship. wish you all the best!
well im not sure what your saying if you wana broke up with him then talk to him but still be friends with him lol


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My close friend had this same situation, where she moved in and found it wasn't right, but was tied to him and didn't think she could be without him. (Worse, she also lived with his family.)





The deal is, you need to find your own place ASAP, because it will get ugly and awkward if you don't.





Then, you just need a clean break. It's like kicking any addiction, you go cold turkey or you'll always go back to it. Walk away once and for all. You'll get over it with time and eventually meet someone new.





She did this exact thing, and while it was hard at first, she met a new guy and now they are engaged.